Psychology Articles

So I’ve got some bacofoil around my head; I’ve got an EMF-balancing pendant hanging from my neck and I attend a regular support group to share the messages the government are beaming in to my head. Am I immune to the effects of mind control now?

As was noted in Part 2 of this short series of articles, governments have a history of experimenting on the unsuspecting and unwitting public. So, perhaps, there is no reason to assume that they are not doing so now – right at this very minute.

Enter V2K…

Claimed to be an ‘official military’ term V2K stands for Voice to Skull technology. That’s right – a device which will beam brain washing instructions, mind programming instructions or even, I guess Barry Manilow tunes with hidden subliminals directly into your brain.

There are people, out there, who genuinely believe that they are TI’s (targeted individuals) and that they are being experimented upon with a range of electronic devices which plant thoughts into their minds. Of course, such claims can immediately be dismissed as some form of mental illness, but are there any grounds, apart from a lack of trust in governments, to think that there is anything in behind these beliefs?

Well if I can trust my internet ’search’ abilities I do find a Patent registered with the US Patents Office for a device which provides a…

“method of encoding an input audio signal thereby enabling intelligible speech to be perceived by the brain as any other nerve signal from the cochlea”

US Patents: 3563246 February 1971 Puharick 3629521 December 1971 Puharick 4835791

I think that constitutes voices in the head?

But does that automatically mean that TI’s are the unwitting victims of CIA-Secret Government Experimentation?

In the UK the TETRA System is actually claimed to be evidence of “Mass UK Mind Control Technology and the Zombification Of Britain’s Police” (CH4 News, Feb 5th, 2001).

One may wonder how this happens, well according to “leading psychotronic expert Tim Rifat)..

“The TETRA system pulses at 17.6 Hz broadcast at 400 MHz which is essentially the Pandora Project funded by the CIA in the late ’60s and early ’70s.”

Well Ross Adey is certainly a real person. He died in 2004 and his special interest was the effects of electromagnetic effects upon biological tissues. The University of California in its memoriam to him notes that he had…

“Especially provocative and revolutionary…. concepts..”

The problem with ‘provocative’ and ‘revolutionary’ work is that it is just that ‘provocative’ and ‘revolutionary’. The truth of the matter is that despite the constant recycling of Adey’s work there seems to be little in the way of corroborative supporting research on the biological effects of EMF fields in the ranges claimed by ‘conspiracy theorists’ and TI supporters. Of course, as in any area of ‘revolutionary’ science it will be possible to find individual reports, evangelical researchers, scientists and mavericks who will support the most left-field of ideas. Also, it must be remembered that scientific findings are by the very nature of scientific method tentative and are there to promote debate. This is why great care must be taken when starting with a belief or opinion and then looking for the scientific article or research to support it.

I am not an expert in EMF and ELF fields and their effect upon biology or neurology and the best I can do is remain open to the possibility whilst reading what those who do know about this stuff are saying. It’s not good enough to say that so many scientists disagree with an existing consensus – not all scientists are created equal. They can of course have opinions (whether they be informed, emotional or both) but if they are commenting outside of their area of expertise and current research then they are as likely to be mistaken as anyone else.

So what is TETRA – well as far as I can see it’s a communications mast which allows for cross-border communications to work. I’m not necessarily convinced that Motorola really wants to create zombie police or zombie anything for that matter.

That brings us to Project PANDORA.

When we consider MKULTRA, Project Artichoke and the other, now declassified projects, the existence of a project to consider V2K technology is seemingly plausible.

Well one whistleblower, named Hawkspirit, informs us that..

“The United States of America’s Army’s “Military Thesaurus” defines “Voice to skull” (V2K) devices as follows:

“Voice to skull devices..which can transmit sound into the skull of persons or animals. NOTE: the sound modulation may be voice or audio subliminal messages.. Acronym: V2K”.

I’ve no reason to assume that’s incorrect, although the idea of a published Military Thesaurus seems somewhat amusing.

Project Pandora was supposedly linked to MK Ultra and ran as part of it the first non-conspiracy friendly website I could find about Project Pandora was about the espionage film of the same title, about a mind control conspiracy, starring one of the Baldwin brothers.

A declassified document from 1966 identifies Project Pandora as an experiment in the nature and propagation of microwave radiation and not linked to mind control at all.

A 1984 documentary, Opening Pandora’s box, which was claimed to be shown BBC Channel 4 contains the following quotes:

“The Soviets started bombarding the American Embassy in Moscow in 1953 and the U.S. government funded Project Pandora to find out why. Project Pandora was “a top secret multimillion dollar program”

“Dr. Robert Becker was an eminent scientist and was asked if central nervous system, CNS disturbances occur by microwave radiation. The Pandora Project found that the microwave radiation interferes with decision making capacity, causes chronic stress and low efficiency.”

Source: Opening Pandora’s Box”, 1984, produced by David Jones for Fulcrum Central Productions, aired on BBC Channel 4.

A quick internet search only finds references to the documentary but little about the documentary itself.

Well BBC 4 launched in March 2002 so the fact that the sites searched contain the same basic source error (it could not have been a documentary on BBC Channel 4 shown in 1984), we do have to question the reliability of the sites in question.

Within a topic that is about misinformation we really do have to be careful about the quality of the information from BOTH SIDES of the argument!

So what is the science behind V2K if any?

Well Radio Frequency Hearing (RF Hearing) is fairly well documented.

RF induced sounds can be heard in a quiet environment is required and is similar to other common sounds such as a click, buzz, hiss, knock, or chirp.

In terms of RF or Microwave frequencies affecting behaviour Dr. John A. D’Andrea, Brenda L. Cobb, John O. de Lorge amongst others have show no effects on behaviour with pulse tests on rhesus monkeys. Although pulsed microwaves can induce acoustic pressure waves in the brain (Olsen and James 1983) there is still little evidence to support these techniques as a viable method of systematic mind control.

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“The best I can tell, from your natal chart, with the 16th degree of Uranus conjunct Mars passing over your natal Jupiter in the 4th house at the exact degree, you will experience an unmistakable monumental change of some sort.”

“How convenient! What you just told me about an ‘unmistakable change’, I could have easily gotten out of the horoscope section of any daily newspaper.”

“Would it have mattered how I worded it? You don’t listen or believe a word I say, anyway. I can’t imagine why I read for you? ”

“Because you love wasting time and energy with your nose stuck up in one of those astrology books, pretending to be of service to mankind, with your divine wisdom.”

“That’s not true and you know it! The ones who are really seeking guidance find what they are looking for; as long as they haven’t already determined how it should be.”

“Is that a sneaky way of saying you tell them what they want to hear?”

“No. Usually people who consult me are seriously invested in their lives.’

“And, you’re saying I’m not?”

“Your words condemn you.”

“I hate it when you start that mumbo jumbo esoteric philosophical stuff. Why can’t you just talk in plain normal words? I think you deliberately try to confuse me just because I don’t believe any of this nonsense.”

“Then, why do you keep coming? Why ask me if you don’t want to know?”

“That’s the point! I never know any more when I leave from here than before I came. You are so vague. It’s like you want to keep me in the dark. You never tell me in exact words, in the way I can understand it. Anyway, with all that 4th house activity taking place, what’s going to happen to me?”

“You mean, I won’t tell you what, how and when to do.”

“Of course that’s exactly what I mean. Why do you do that?”

“Do what”

“Lead me in a direction where I could assume whatever I wanted to. When you
use those stupid horoscope terms, I expect you tell me what to do with the information. I could easily interpret whatever I wanted to. It might not be right.”

“That’s impossible. You can’t make something be that’s not supposed to be.”

“There you go again! Acting so highly intelligent; concealing the truth, twisting my words.”

“I’ve not twisted anything; you know that.”

“I don’t know anything of the sort. All I know is that for three long years I’ve been coming to you, paying you ‘good’ money, and I’m still in the same place, doing the same thing.”

“And?”

“And, it’s just not right. I’m sure you tell others more than you tell me. You help them with their problems.

“No one can help anyone.”

“What does that mean? Why do you consult the stars, then? I really want to know when I’m going to find a relationship.

“Your problems, as you refer to them, are in your life for very important reasons”

“What possible reason? Problems are no good for anybody.

“But, they are. They are the outward manifestations of inward unresolved feelings.”

“No, they are not. They are depressing situations where I end up getting hurt. Anyway, WHY do I continually draw the wrong men who just lie, use me for what they can get? When am I ever going to find my perfect soul mate that won’t treat me so bad?

“Why do you say you believe in soul mates?”

“Because, I KNOW there’s someone out there who will really love me. Stand by me. I just don’t understand why I’ve been denied the happiness other people have. What did I ever do to deserve this? No one else has to go through this awful pain of loneliness? I just don’t deserve it.”

“How do you know what you deserve?”

“I know what I don’t deserve.”

“I didn’t ask you that.”

“I deserve to be happy. I deserve to have someone in my life who will worship and adore me; and, some really banging triple orgasmic sex wouldn’t be half bad, either.”

“Every time I confront you with an honest to goodness serious question, you
evade the issue. Become invisible. Deliberately jump tracks into offhanded humor.”

“What part of what I said did you think was funny?”

“None of it. That’s the point. You won’t stop complaining long enough to hear what you are really saying. That’s your Pluto squaring Mercury on your Libra ascendant. The words that fall from your mouth are not connected to your heart.”

“There you go again, talking that Greek!”

“It’s not Greek. It’s the unbearable truth staring you in the face. In order to fill the void, you must release the idea of suffering from not having a relationship.”

“That’s so stupid. Probably the most idiotic thing you’ve ever told me. Of course, I want someone in my life.”

“Not as much as you want to hold onto the ‘poor little me’ scenario you’re so identified with. You’ve spent too many years investing in the idea of being done wrong. What would you do if it’s no longer there to feed you?”

“See how crazy you talk? None of this makes any sense.”

“It makes perfect sense. With Mars/Uranus transiting over your natal Jupiter in Capricorn, life is demanding you grow up. Stop blaming. Stop whining.”

“If I didn’t know you so well, I would say you just insulted the hell out of
me.”

“Insults are the last thing you need to be concerned about.”

“What’s that suppose to mean?”

“It means you live in the future, an unrealistic fantasized perfect world. So obsessed with securing, planning, manipulating the outcome, you never show for your day to day life. And, if you’re not here, who’s playing your role dictating the choices you make, deciding what partners to invite in?

“I don’t show up for my life?”

“Nope, never.”

“Then, how would I know what I really want, IF I’m hiding from my life?”

“You can’t if you don’t show up. Come home to your first love: you.”

“Unmistakable Monumental change!”

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Passionate about love, living, laughter, liberty, learning, listening, loosening up, lounging, lunch, liveliness, literacy, lip stick, letting my hair down, leaping, leaning, libido, lifting, linking, looking, lodging, luxury, lemons and lyrics.

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I didn’t realize it at the time that I had been kidnapped. How can one possibly be kidnapped without realizing what is happening and most especially when the perpetrator is someone you know and love? But, that is what happened on that cold rainy dreary January day when I agreed to go with my father.

It didn’t matter to me at all that my mother was at work, nor did it ever occur to me how wrong it was when I decided not to let her know where I was going. He promised we’d be back in plenty of time before she got home. At the time, it seemed reasonable.

I was home from school, sick, with another sore throat when he drove up. I stood looking out of the red and yellow rooster painted curtains in the small kitchen window when I heard him “honk.”

I was eleven years old, soon to be twelve, 15 days from that unsuspecting day. I grabbed my black fake fur coat darted out the door, so happy to see him. Too many months had passed since I had last heard his hearty laugh and smelled his coffee soaked breath.

Before I reached his ‘65 Ford Candy Apple Red Galaxy 500, he leaned over partially sliding across the white leathered seat enough to open the door. The light blue Oxford buttoned down long sleeved shirt made his Paul Newman eyes sparkle.

“Hi! Daddy, where have you been so long? I’ve missed you!”

“I’ve missed you too, sugar rag. What ‘cha been up to?” He smiled big as he kissed me lightly on the left side of my cheek.

“How did you know I was home from school? I asked but knew exactly what he was going to say.

“I know everything, doll baby. You know that.”

Yes, I did know that. My daddy was the smartest man in the whole wide world, no matter what my mother said about him.

“You want to go for a ride?” I could smell the coffee by now.

“Of course I do, but what about mama, should I let her know? She had no idea you would show up just like me.”

“Don’t worry about her. I’ll have you back in no time.” He never paused before asking “How about we catch a movie today?”

I couldn’t believe it. Two miracles in one day: Seeing my daddy who I adored and being able to go to the movies in the middle of the week, on a school day, no less.

“Yes, sir ree bob! Let’s go.” I was so happy just to be with him, hearing him laugh, watching his large hand pull the lever down into drive.

“What are we going to see?” I asked smiling so hard I thought my jaws would snap.

“Anything you’d like! It’s going to be your very special day. Just me and you, popcorn, drink and Milk Duds.” I remember his mashing the accelerator real slow as we pulled off.

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Passionate about love, living, laughter, liberty, learning, listening, loosening up, lounging, lunch, liveliness, literacy, lip stick, letting my hair down, leaping, leaning, libido, lifting, linking, looking, lodging, luxury, lemons and lyrics.

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The Futile Stupid Unreasonableness of Trying to Hold onto a Familiar Identity and Comfortable Security

We work so hard to ‘establish and maintain’ a certain familiar distinctiveness in ourselves, according to how we inadvertently label success, financial freedom, recognizable sought after happiness/wealth/riches: ‘making it to the top.’

Which supposedly offers us a comfortable individual security, merited place of notoriety, including an emotionally attached favored ‘looked up-to’ identity of sorts?

We are trying so hard to get it right, make our mark, ‘be somebody’, do it before the next guy cashes in; we tend to overlook and undervalue how much precious time is sucked away in fueling our self-vested fabricated idolized misery.

Along with the desperately sought after unshakable security, [arriving at the place we believe to be significant and worthy of praise and recognition] a certain self-projected respect demanding ‘holier than thou’ foreboding energy attaches itself to the ‘one being in the know.’

The more we project we know, or have need to know anything, the less we are in the vicinity of finding out. In other words, we are always hopelessly lost; no matter the outer ‘toys of distraction’ we exploit to prove otherwise. (Ambiguity)

Moreover, during the falsely saturated time of cherished self-intoxicated elevated position, we silently refute and resent the parroted place of fictitious harmony while, lacking in true peace, are superficially traveling incognito, defiantly in search of finding our ‘true selves’ in an attempt to fill the gaping hole we live with. (Paradox)

“Surely true peace of mind can be had, IF only I knew how to do the right things to get it.”

“This cannot be all there is”, we silently reassure ourselves, as we once again succumb to our fractured mind’s taunting insistence; “Don’t Worry. Have hope. It’s going to get better. You won’t feel like this, always.”

The relentless torrid mind ridicules us at every turn, as we try to calm our restless seething nature.

Nothing could be worse than for us to heed the deceitful luring words of hopeful resolution. (Ambiguity) There’s no peaceful resolution to be had for there’s nothing to resolve. (Paradox) “This IS as good as it gets.”

An absolute insidious mockery of the worst kind results when we arrive at the place where we think we should be, doing what we ought to be doing, saying what we need to say, performing the comparable expected majestic duties attached to the “IDEA” of success whether in marriage, career, education, and/or on a spiritual platform.

If the truth be known, as unpleasant as it sounds to fragile ears: to supposedly arrive at the situation where ‘We’ve made it” nothing short of drinking an 8 ounce bottle of absinthe laced cyanide can eradicate the infectious feelings of unutterable disdain and disgust.

We are living in complete ubiquitous ambiguity and indemonstrable paradox. To deny the reality of its liberating premise produces unalterable agony.

To declare with full certainty that we KNOW what to do and HOW to do and with WHOM to do it is a complete boldfaced lie! It would be like saying one path is better than another path. No. Impossible.

All roads lead home if you don’t KNOW where HOME is located!

Adjusting to the undeniable fact that things are constantly (appearing so) thrown out of order simply to be rearranged in a different framework, requires an ineffable courage and merciless determination not to be swayed by visual “human appetite suppressants.”

Whether these suppressants be in the form of relationships, spirituality, career, fame, prestigious positions in society, celebrity/sports recognition, accolade mastery, extended idolatrous vain attritions of celebrate honor, or simply ‘following someone else’ who has thoroughly convincingly marketed himself/herself and the ‘miracle fix products, programs, or processes’ as ones who ‘have the goods’, the end result is the same: melancholy.

Nothing could be further from road of acquiesced contentment than to believe we must be saved, rescued, set free, and/or bailed out. Our real business remains obscured as long as we look for it and ‘who we are.’

We are to abandon the idea and any recognizable reference to hope. Hope implies doubt. If we hope for a better tomorrow we are admitting our today is less than perfect.

Our days are the immutable ledges upon which we stand to view the sun, rain, snow, winds and drought with uncompromising gratitude. IF we could change our ledges, (we can’t) we would alter our indistinguishably programmed DNA molecules which comprise our celestially organized structured beings.

The more we try to change any aspect of our delicately magically ordered selves, relationships, careers, education, physical bodies, and variegated lives the less productive and contributory we experience ‘pure raw authenticity’ in our existence.

In addition, by inaccurately assuming when we arrive or have arrived that we would not lash out at those who have loved, supported and connected with us on our renowned journey is pointless.

The more successful we think of ourselves, the more unsuccessful we tend to view others. By reason of comparison and measurement, we must have a podium of reference for our advantageous highly coveted awarded singled out accomplishments.

So what are we to do? Cease striving, measuring, tabulating, competing and planning! Relax by facing each moment honestly with no glamorized emotional reaction. “If at any moment we think we know what we are doing and why we are doing, cease immediately.”

Invite ambiguity and paradox into the grand ballroom. Put on our finest attire. Offer them the better of the best we have in our closets. Allow the reality of death’s encroaching reality as the parade of victory to be celebrated and enriched.

Pretend not that he will stay his hand until we have finished our business. We have no business except for living/laughing/loving each moment of our soapbox infused lives unconditionally and rapturously content just to be here.

Don’t hold back.

Do what we sacredly sensually sexually passionately creatively love to do all the time. Look for no beneficial result, applause or appreciation.

Now and forever with no hope of excuses, defense, explanations, or recognition, breathe in the moment of self-generated ecstasy and release every single mouse dropping bit of it with the exhale.

Start afresh uncertain not having or wanting a clue. Live without security and destination. It’s the only way we do.

Proud Native Born, Bred, and Resident of North Carolina, married 40 spectacular years, 6 children, 11 grandchildren.

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Opening to the Indestructible Force of Focused Sensual Conviction

Human beings are natural born negotiators. Whether one is aware of it or not, the indisputable fact is: we know how to get what we want! The difficulty lies in ability to clearly state what it is we want more than anything else in the whole wide world.

There are so many options, distractions, luring ‘tinkle trinkets’, that draw our attention away from what it is we desire.

See here’s the deal: with only so many minutes in the run of a day that we are afforded to stay awake to live our lives as passionately and fully engaged in sacred sensually sexually artistically creative projects, we must become aware of what direction we are placing our energy.

We can blab intentions all day long, but until we affirmatively state what it is we want ‘barring nothing and no one’, we will remain flittering around the mulberry bush, holding our pee.

IF you have read many of my previous esoterically based psychological articles, you are already in the vein of realizing that YOU are on the right track doing whatever it is you are supposed to be doing for reasons you can’t possibly realize the significance and connection therein contained.

However, the clock is ticking and you are on the clock!

IF you spend one minute complaining, griping, groaning, moaning, comparing, gossiping, backbiting, plotting, competing, measuring and planning the outcome of your endeavors, you are not in the succulent bed of your sacred sensual sexual artistic creative bed of passion. In fact, you are growing decrepit by the second.

Have you taken a grand long look at yourself, lately? Has the sparkling twinkle left your eyes; does you face seem tired, haggard and drawn? Are you as sexually attractive as you feel you can be?

Sexual attractiveness flees from the person who is a monochromatically dull repeating the same old “poor me” tales day after day after day. Give it and the others a rest. Everybody’s got a story, so what? Get on with the ecstatic buzz of electrified gyrating movement.

A rhythmic vibrating bounce in your step defines your carefree fun-loving ‘ready for new adventure’ personality. OH? Did I hear you say, “Not much bounce in my pounce?” And, just why not,may I say indignantly inquire? When did you get so disgusted and ornery?

On what day did you release your passionate zest for laughing and rolling in continual bliss filled inspired activities?

Have you noticed how negative and cynical you are lately? If so, other people have known it for quite some time. The negativity you are surrounded by arrives via through your present mind-set. NO one else is bringing you down, making you mad or spilling juice on your favorite cashmere sweater.

You hear a lot about marketing these days. (Especially internet marketing; which as a side note: I know nothing about) But, the genuine marketing strategy is in you, for you, with you, on you and about you. You are the best thing going since where you are going is exactly and precisely where you are supposed to be going and nowhere else but!

In other words, you won’t be cheated out your mate, position, money, business opportunity, bargain and or friendship. It’s absolutely impossible to be cheated in this life. So relax. No one can take anything or anyone from you that belongs on your specified path.

They don’t possess that kind of power. No one does! If circumstances appear as if something or someone has been removed, it was only because the removal was part of the divinely sanctified celestially ordered path. Got that?

More to your ever unfolding story coming round the bend just be patient.

Here is where your finely processed delectably crafted undeniable solicitous negotiating tools show up. Of course, you’ve had them the entire time, but merely neglected to recognize the potent source of their magnetic attracting power as coming from you.

You are a commandingly authoritative negotiator who gets what is asked for when you say once and for all times what it is you ‘no kidding’ want. Do you even know? If not, NOW is the time to ponder on that sensational luscious oasis within you.

Our precious ruthless soul {who can mysteriously double as a camel} will offer up her secrets IF you are courageous enough to confront her in earnest.

It’s all a matter of deciding what you are willing to exchange for what it is you are asking for. OH? Did you think you could get something for nothing? Not going to happen. Our precious seductive sensual soul wants the earth-shattering experience; what do you want?

You are going to have to learn to diminish the failure fear fox and the crabby curt criticism you so easily spout without even getting a high five. Think you can do that?

If you are not tending to your business, erroneously believing someone else cares about it as much as you do; you are a lazy sleepy dumfounded sitting duck. Silly rabbit, desires are personal and individually cherished. Others can talk about it but they can’t feel it!

{Did I mention our precious ruthless soul, being the divine trickster she is, is incredibly jealous and possessive?} She wants you to have the incalculable bliss attached to the individual wish you desire, alone.

It’s sort of like a personal cosmic celestial orgasm.

You can share it all you want to, but You will the instigator, manager, motivator, installer, writer, inspirer, singer, songwriter, poet, musician, scientist, philosopher, engineer, lawyer, banker, judge, priest, sports commentator, educator, builder, artist, drama coach, cook, bottle washer, public relations specialist, producer, box office auditor, director, performance critic and star of your own show.

That’s precisely where the infamous negotiating skills come into play. You are in the passive/aggressive articulated motivated celebrated demonstrated role of selling the one of a kind unidentifiable you!

Nobody can do you like you can do you!

I’m going to swing on out of this howling jazz joint as I bring this slow dance to a screeching halt but not without asking you one more time, seriously. What is it that you are interested in?

Are you involved in that one blood pumping sacred sensual sexual artistic creative fantasized obsession in any significant way? Fantasy works on the premise of mutuality. A ‘natural and convenient’ fascination exists in you and no one else has that exact same foundational premise to build upon.

Here’s how you will know it’s you inimitable passion.

You are ‘turned on’ by this thing more than anyone you know and can’t understand why it doesn’t light up the entire world with the same kind of enthusiastic conviction. I’ll tell you why. That sacred passion is yours to negotiate, on your terms, with your explicit skills, talents and abilities.

It’s high time to call a special urgent board of directors meeting with your precious ruthless soul to discuss your most private affairs. You think you can negotiate? “You aint seen nothing, yet.” Wait until she calls in her big bosses. That’s when the party really gets rolling.

“Now, where’d I lay that saxophone?”

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MODE of Cosmic Therapy Esoteric Psychology: Inhabiting the Evolving Personality of Social Change

When I was a small girl, my family was not affluent enough to own a washing machine or dryer. So every Saturday, I, along with my younger brothers and sisters would accompany my mother to the local ‘laundry mat’.

I remember sitting in the wobbly plastic faded off-white dingy metal chair while my mother loaded the quarter machines with as many clothes as she could pack in. When the cycle was complete, she would place them in large dime dryers.

It was ‘then and there’ I got to watch the world spin ’round and round’ making a most soothing sound. I could have sat in that one spot for hours simply watching the multi-colored clothes turning over and over.

I saw the many fabrics, shapes and sizes being tossed, turned, and jumbled faster and faster as they dried, until the dryer came to an abrupt stop, signaling they were completely dry…Maybe.

So many different types of people came to the same ‘laundry mat’ to wash and dry their clothes. I used to watch the families as they piled in lugging their raggedy wooden laundry baskets, and pillow cases full of dirty clothes.

I wondered where they lived, what the mama did (was she, in fact, a good mother) and what kind of job the daddy had; but most of all, why they didn’t have a washer and dryer. I distinctively remember thinking that everyone in the whole wide world had to dry clothes, too.

I wondered how many of them went to the laundry mat in China, Russia, or South America or if they even had such places.

The indelibly implanted memories of wet stench, soiled clothes, and molded scented floors are vivid ones. I would close my eyes and imagine how, when I grew up, married and had a family of my own, the first thing I was going to purchase was a new washing machine and dryer.

And, as time and chance would have it, when I did marry, I purchased a small Barlane two bedroom mobile home which a washing machine and dryer had been included. Boy! Did I ever feel I had arrived! It’s funny how insignificant memories play such an important part in the irrefutable directing in the sensitive course of our lives.

Memoriesact as noteworthy signposts along the way for incomparable reasons and life-sustaining motivations to cause us to place value on certain things while we dismiss others.

Yet, it is only through the valley of denial, despair and discomfort that we are able to move into the hills of meaningful ’soil to toil’ for our lives. Nothing momentous occurs which is not hitherto attached to the unbreakable strand of early childhood situational needful implications set about.

At the time, they occur, they seem so insignificant but upon self reflection, coupled with determination, we are able to rightly appreciate the difficult times. The upsetting times of struggle, disappointment, and despondency that fueled the fire of intimate personal zeal.

Without our individual phases of ‘doing without’, feeling abandoned, isolated and misunderstood, we would none have the impetus to strive (transcend).

As adults, we tend to forget those cherished times of inherent growth. Instead we may assign improper accusation, unnecessary blame or discount the worthiness of our “struggling to make it roots.” We disavow the pertinent relevance associated in the miraculous events which have brought us to this place of celebrated union.

By the noblest of effort to overcome what we believed to challenges, obstacles, barriers and handicaps, we ventured out beyond the parameter of our social environment. Or did we?

Do we not still love to watch the clothes tumble in a dyer while it serenades us with a humming melody?

In these seemingly trivial matters, underestimated circumstances, dismembered situations, we are grounded in our highest aspirations. It is through these undeniable episodes (some better some worse) that our divine personalities are shaped and formed to be fully expressed later.

We, as human beings, are extremely complicated variegated entities.

Yet our needs are quite simple. Underlying our super imposed integrated personalities are four very basic straightforward parts: intellect (faculty for reason, understanding and knowledge), integrity (innate compass for recognizing and discerning truth and falsehood) sociably adaptable gravitating tendencies (fundamental desire for relationships) and last, but certainly not least, sacred sensual sexual artistic creative expression.

These ineffable characteristics are sublime unspoken, clearly unappreciated, traits of the human specimen that when recognized and activated bring about inexpressible bliss.

The undeniable WILL to create comes from the unmistakable origin of our births. Into the specific sphere of designated activity were we born with great undeliverable reason, misguided understanding and/or limited knowledge.

Yet as we grow into our precious ruthless soul’s specifically selected earth experience, the heavy scales of undeserving condemnation, insidious ridicule, and despicable guilt and graven shame fall from our distorted eyes.

We no longer look back at our past, and those who lived through it with us, aghast, but with loving arms of surrendered grace. Whoever we were, are and will be is already and has been in existence unfolding anew each moment of existence.

As the creator who transcends and is in the midst of it all, we are ever evolving out of ourselves into the new creature that has never been or will be again.

As contrary as it sounds we are a paradox unto ourselves for at times we can know things and at others times we know NO thing. (Before it is time, we will know nothing.) From those four basic attributes, mentioned earlier, man creates, is created and is the creation, itself.

He expresses his unique divine creativity in order (and because of) to plummet into the abyss of his own making of self-aggrandizement.

There in the barren pit of despair he will find his emancipation. From the self-liberation released, he rises to the occasion of unspeakable brilliance without the need of recognition or gratitude.

In other words, we can and do have any and EVERY thing we could possibly ever want, imagine, or create when we no longer desire it. The desire for praise brings with it exploitation.

As long as we are filled to capacity with our ‘natural and convenient’ passions and exercise the sacred sensual sexual artistic creative expressions, we have no room (at the Inn) for any other reassurance or support. In order to experience hallowed transcendence, we must first be in the midst of the so-called lowly state (negativity) to transcend it.

Why else would we inhabit this earth plane? We are not capable of rising above until we fully believe in our cast down forsaken abandoned rejected despised neglected lot. Then and only then do we realize there’s nothing to transcend.

We are the transcendence!

Things have a way of making their definitively hallowed designed course through all sorts of winding roads of incomprehensible twists and turns. Universal Social Change takes place one dyer load of clothes tumbling at a dime’s worth of time.

No matter where you are presently standing, in whatever state you are in, doing whatever it is you are doing: remember, you are part of the global unity of social change.

So in closing I add, I still adore the passionate sound and sight of clothes drying in the dryer. There are few people, places and/or things that are more reverently beautiful to my eyes, ears, heart and precious ruthless soul of determined mysterious intent.

I am aware that you have all heard the much repeated saying:

“I’m waiting for my ship to come in.” Well, I’m here to tell you; it’s already come in:” We are all sailing on it!”

Proud Native Born, Bred, and Resident of North Carolina, married 40 spectacular years, 6 children, 11 grandchildren.

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MODE of Cosmic Therapy: We Gravitate to How We Initially Vibrate

Childhood inner disciplinary dynamics continually play themselves out in our day to day lives, especially where romantic involvements are concerned. We are constantly ‘on guard’ either consciously or unconsciously, gauging our manner of speaking, acting and filtering our thoughts of tenuous strings through the corset of our most intimate relationships. We stand as a caustic regent on the thresh hold of our most pearlized cherished emotions, deprecating ourselves and the other, for not paying homage to them in the correct manner expected. We accept nothing less than the idolized perception of ‘what should be’ as we have jack hammered the illustrious opinions into our brain’s circuitry

‘The perfectly acceptable relationship standard’ is based upon a faulty premise, however. WE approach our relationships with an infiltrated barrier of commanding pre-exiting expectation. The thwarted anticipation saturates the union prior to unification of ideas. We have been somewhat damaged, in some way or another, simply by being on earth and engaging in this calibrated emotional ‘roller coaster’ journey. The carefree spontaneity and joyful playful spirit was haltingly tainted along the way due to no fault except that we previously (cosmically) asked to be able to experience human emotions at the deepest most horrendous level. In other words, we carried over, a specifically spoiled view of ‘how things were supposed to be.’

One does not have to believe in previous lives to ascribe to this ‘carrying accumulated garbage’ theory; the immediate family penetrative archetypal dynamics from this ONE life is proof enough. Of course, the radical idea that, in fact, no one has ever harmed us in any way nor have we been truly cheated, abused, abandoned, neglected, deserted, forsaken, isolated, or neglected to the point of irrefutable destruction is hard to swallow but none the less demonstrably relevant. We may have experienced the pain of these earth emotionally “what’s in it for me” driven experiences but the irresolute injury never occurred. We may have gone though the intolerable incalculable motions of appearing to lose our sense of self worth, esteem and motivation but not without the notary seal of our designated approval. Truth wounds but never destroys.

Circumstances which occurred when we were quite young ineradicably forged a groove in our brain circuitry which cast us on the ‘potter’s wheel’ of derisive firing. But, the friction, ‘bumps and lumps’ were implanted to produce an immaculate creation as a by-product of injurious spinning. In other words, the early environmental circumstances were perfectly prescribed which enabled us to survive, thrive, and dive into a life filled to overflowing relationships bounty. The result of our continued childhood experience being lived every day remains as repeated fresh cow manure used as fertilization.

We gravitate to the people we need to associate with. We vibrate to the person and/or persons who is/are carrying the delineated frequency our electrical brain’s nodules recognize as necessary. It is only by and through the superficial IDEAS attached; in the process of early parental defective interpretation do we experience deflation. Another word would be: bitterness. We have never been betrayed nor have we been deceived. No one has the definitive power to do so. It is absolutely impossible to be cheated in this life. The intricate pieces fall in the perfectly stimulated ridged cosmic design.In all actuality, the memories we reflect upon are no more real than the traumatic or exalted life affirming story we repeat convincingly.

We tell and re-tell these life stories in order to remain vigilant. We can’t possibly let our guard down for one second. “Something might take us unaware.” We create a craft-fully designed world of such grandeur or defeat (one being the same) so that we remain the victim or hero. Either way, we are always ‘looking out for our initial interest and warranted investment’. As long as we continue to deny this ‘untouchable sphere of mind generated reality’, we will prolong the amorphous experience of being suspicious, caustic, paranoid, bitter, resentful, untrusting, scared, unapproachable, desperate, remorseful and quick to judge. While at the same time, we’ll recognize and admit to nothing but the guileless generosity we think we possess and how it is being misrepresented and mal-aligned.

If we continue to believe that someone has cheated us out of something or denied us opportunity or of our rightful place, person or thing, we will continue to communicate poorly and ineffectually. When we feel we deserve more than we are receiving, our minds are cluttered with unending anxiety and despairing emptiness. The overall state of our health [along with our mental functioning faculties: stress, apprehension, insomnia, depression, high blood pressure, nervousness, inability to relax, and on and on and on] will surely suffer. Our relationships won’t even get a bull fighter’s chance since we will be too absorbed in the past to show up for our present involvements. We will be strewn with jealousy, envy, pride, and grievous gluttony.

NO one owes us anything; except that which we decided upon on the prior bargaining table of options. And, moreover we would be highly pissed IF another tried to offer us a ‘way out.’ We don’t want out, we want in: to the sacred sanctuary of our deepest motivations in understanding our relationships as the true mirrors of our undetected perpetrating selves. Why insult ourselves or the other by asking and receiving an unnecessary allowance of advantage in the relationship?

It can not be stated enough: when we place another in an elevated position, it causes him/her to be in an unnatural, awkward and uncomfortable position. No good can come from that surreal place. Elevation is impossible to regulate and maintain. The lofty unnatural arrangement makes it impossible for him/her to be able to communicate. And, when we place ourselves or the other in such an elevated so-called honorable spot, it is then ‘we’ who are the most vulnerable. How dare we be so transparently superfluous! Apt to be chained to flattery, praise and clothed in a ‘false cloak of goodness.’

The unfortunate result is that we both end up competing, comparing, and worst of all ‘performing.’ Beset with all manners of devious vexation; we fume. The conjured creature disguised under a cheap imitation of “who can shine the most” armor; easily will be tarnished, broken and discarded. This cloak of pretended goodness invariably hides any genuine good. Superficiality makes for an uneasy inconvenient and perverted way to interact in any relationship. Intimate interaction can not take place from afar.

In other words, we must bring the all the scraps to the table. No need to use the fine china to impress. Don’t show a polish face; show the mysteriously undisciplined unrevealed blemished face we are at the moment with all of our accumulated debris. Whatever THAT is, let it breathe and dance uninhibitedly. I guarantee the sublime radiance will astound. The enigmatic authenticity of the hour precedes us..Although the throne of romantic deceptive pretense lures; refuse to sit upon it. Be as unpretentiously assertive as is uncomfortable. We’ll get use to it; it’s in our genes.

I have a BS in Communication with a MA in Art Education currently pursuing a Ph.D in Educational Psychology. I am an Executive Cosmic Therapist, Sexual Psycho-analyst,artist, author,entertainer, motivational speaker,teacher, singer/songwriter, musician, composer, playwright,, professional astrologer, tarot consultant, Numerologist, poet and self-taught chef.

I am also the creator/ host of the entertainingly popular MODE Of Cosmic Therapy Hour television show. [Currently on air in Raleigh and Asheville North Carolina] In addition, I am the Founder/Director/C.E.O. of M.O.D.E International School of Esoteric Arts and Sciences

As I have already mentioned, psychotherapists are becoming an endangered species as a consequence of the explosion of “life (and other) coaches.” So what is a psychotherapist, therapist, psychologist, social worker, or psychiatrist to do?

Obviously, if you want to stay as a “medical-model” business, you will have to start marketing like crazy to make prospects see there is an advantage of going to you rather than to a coach. But that sounds like a hard row to hoe considering your obligations to insurers with whom you contract and your dependence on them for their payments. This is especially true when you consider for-profit managed-care restrictions on fees, conditions, and clients.

What many coach training facilities are encouraging is that psychotherapists not necessarily abandon their therapy practice altogether but add coaching to it. This, they say, can add the opportunity to expand your therapy practice, to provide “motivational, balancing, and integrating” help as we, as coach Martha Beck puts it.

For example, when someone with anxiety comes to you, if you are a therapist as well as a coach, you can address the anxiety directly and the lurking social problem contributing to it. The action-oriented, solution- focused direction of coaching could help the client create the efficacy and greater self-confidence needed to work on their anxiety problem.

Disengaging from insurance or for-profit managed care companies does offer you the benefits of doing away with the slews of paperwork and having to religiously follow their dictates.

Another benefit is not receiving only a percentage of the fee. While some may think talking about money for mental health workers is crass, the reality is psychotherapy is a business. For the business to survive, thrive, and help people therapists have to receive necessary and sufficient compensation – which is too often not the case right now.

Were you to take the training to become a life coach (or any other variation of coach) to become a coach-therapist, you would put yourself in a more viable business situation. Being a life coach would make you stan-out from your therapist colleagues and make your practice more desirable.

But there is one potentially negative consequence to this business change. Before you were primarily in competition with other therapists and only secondarily with life coaches. Now you would be primarily in competition with the multitudinous life coaches and only secondarily with therapists.

Because life coaches are so “smokin” at this time,” this means that you have to have a really good marketing plan in place to differentiate yourself from all the other life coaches as well as all the other therapists.

You have to be able to demonstrate that you now present the best of both worlds for your clients – making you the obvious choice for them. No matter what you choose to do to survive now and thrive in the future, it must include solid education-based marketing.

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In life and in business, problems form the basis of pretty much all our lives. Unless we are Buddhist hidden away from society, we all encounter problems that need to be addressed on a daily basis. For some of us, problems are something we thrive on, but for the majority of people, problems are something that cause deep stress and anxiety. This article has been written with these problem in mind – so that when a problem does arise, the skilled helper in all of us is able to deal with it in the most effective way possible.

So how do you find this illusive skilled helper? It is not easy, but you need to hone in on a concept called ‘positive psychology’ which in very basic terms looks at turning problems into opportunities; seeing that if something is wrong, then it can be fixed and the process of this fixing can be hugely therapeutic for all involved. There have been various publications based on this idea, for example the works of Gerard Egan, Professor Emeritus, Loyola University of Chicago. It, like others, focuses on a self healing approach to dealing with clients and the problems that arise in conjunction with them.

In order to find this skilled helper, it is recognised that problems are solved as part of a team, rather than an individual. While positive psychology might seem individual-based, its success relies on the fact that problems are best solved by way of collaborative effort, not one person imposing their will on others. This ultimately lightens the load on those who have to solve problems, because the stress is spread around and more minds are brought together in order to solve a problem. It is true to say, then, that several minds are better than one.

While business is often mentioned in relation to positive psychology, it is also true to say that your own skilled helper can come out in whatever part of society or the economy you are in. Perhaps your problems arise in a hospital or an educational institute, or perhaps they do arise within a business environment. In all cases, problems share common attributes. This means that skills acquired in one area of life can be transferred to another with relative ease.

There are various publications, such as those by Egan, which can help with what in this article we have referred to as finding the skilled helper. This helper is you, and you hold the key to its power.

Gino Hitshopi is highly experienced in the realm of Egan and the skilled helper, having worked in the motivational industry for many years. For more information please visit: http://edu.cengage.co.uk/catalogue/product.aspx?isbn=0495604313

It is a theme that everyone can apply that each one has its own inner fire but it is something we have to find, and sometimes is not a fire but they are small strands, or is a fire we had before or have not yet found.

Let’s talk a little about how to find the fire within, and be brighter and as that fire can give you all the food that you need to do what you want, because with the desire and open mind can do anything.

Exactly, when we find that passion, that fire that makes us live, we are passionate about, it is very important not only to approach it but to help grow and pursue it, not only stay in that passion we had, not 10 years ago, 15 years when we were younger we used to say oh, this is my passion, but little by little with all that we have going in life, suddenly you get married, suddenly you had children, or did you get into a line of work in which you stalled and stayed there as your life was going and how you lost that fire, and it is very important as lifting the fire, look within yourself and keep feeding them more fuel meter to grow.

And what we can do then is to find a time in our life where we had that fire, maybe it was a relationship or the success you had in school or a sport you played, but we have to stay in the past but we go to the past to find that fire and see how you felt at that time, how proud you felt, focus on how you felt at that moment, and then forget about the past.

Focus on your surroundings and watch the people around us today, which is what interests you, that you love, all those things, the trick is, that everything that is happening and has happened, what it all around you already in your life, and even everything you want is already there, so we have to do is find all that and make a configuration with everything that is around us.

It is also important that we realize the people around us, because often people who are around us it down to one, because do not want you to succeed, there is a saying that says if you want to drag you to the wolves, you to continue crawling with wolves, but instead if you want to fly like the eagles, you learn to fly high and reach those goals that you resolved when you were younger and might have left there like the forgotten by time and and never follow behind those goals and those things that you love in life and simply left them there as dreams.

I think it’s a very interesting topic now that we are in late April and then yet well ask what is it I want to accomplish in the remainder of the year? What action or actions will I take to reach those goals and that I comply?

First do not focus on the views of others when they are negative opinions about projects, goals and dreams we have, YES YOU HAVE SOMETHING THAT IT IS BURNING WITHIN A FIRE INSIDE, and want to connect with him through reading you do, the teachings you hear on this program, look, look for positive people, positive readings, positive programs, positive material, if your looking for so when you have that vibration, you have that frequency, suddenly you’ll see that in two months, three months people around you that has your interests, as often as you.

Just concentrate on what you can control, it is the idea that going to change the minds of others that have to think like you, that would waste energy, focus on yourself, you can change, find your inner fire and nothing can separate you from that fire, and this must be the most important thing. This is not to be confused with not being selfish,

When you have a new project and is the wife and says, but these crazy with your new project

Not that we want our family but we are on the line that this project is best for her, for our children, etc., Not to let anything or anyone we remove that inner fire that burns within us. Happened to me with my best friends, with people close to me who thinks they’re going to support one with the things you want to achieve in life is that people who want to stay at the same level as that are afraid to leave the comfort zone, if you stay with family friends, one of course wants and always will want, but they will make you always be as in the comfort zone we have. If you want to grow, you have to spread out and that means get out of the comfort zone of comfort and spread out and grow and then we started to meet people, that’s not in that circle of friends who are people who have aimed high and you will to help fly. When you decide to grow and spread out in and out of that circle of comfort that’s when the adventure begins, but will still stuck in the miso circle and you can not expect new things to happen in your life.

A limiting belief in this is that when you have passion for something and you know someone who is doing very, very well, is to go to them with good questions, not excuses, I have no money, I’m poor, do not go to school is that I am a single mother, is that I am squat, ugly, stubborn, when I meet someone who is on a higher level than me and I want to get there, I have no fear I will that person and tell him I have this project, and always think the other person do I have to help yourself, thus putting ourselves in the same frequency and help you soar upwards. Think how you can help your first, how you can help someone that person has that position is to help you, but walks with confidence and the mood you want to do something with the inner fire and that’s it and gradually step by step you will increase your success, your income.

Something that one of my mentors always told me is that if you want to raise their incomes always be with the growth from within, your income will not rise if you do not have internal growth, or if you want new business, new relationships with people who will help one to raise the highest level you have to be prepared internally to grow, to invest in yourself and get out of that comfort zone. If you’re not growing, you’re dying, and the only way to grow is to stretch, to invest in yourself, not only money but also time, and out of all these things we are accustomed to that one is comfortable.

When you’re making a new platform in your life and you want to get to the top, in the upload process we are uncomfortable that we have no security, everything is new, unknown, when we reach the next platform, we are comfortable around, and that’s when we have to look at the next platform and go back to being uncomfortable again. What I’m saying is you find your inner fire and the remainder of the year is somewhat inconvenient for you, because that will mean that you are growing like crazy, when you change and these uncomfortable is that you are growing,

DO NOT BE AFRAID TO CHANGE

It grows and grows and grows looking for people to help you fly like eagles, not crawl across the floor like the wolves, get off the couch, throw away the TV, everything that makes you feel comfortable, break them for now, is that they are bad, things are not bad but the impact they have had in you that made you comfortable in those things, get uncomfortable, read if you do not like to read, do something other than shake and I’m sure the remainder of the year will be successful, and we’re here to help, I learn of you and you and me and we grow together.

Consultant in Human Development. Business Coach and Motivational Therapist. Teach and apply your knowledge based on the principles of Emotional Intelligence and the Law of Attraction.